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		<title>Comment on David LaChappelle&#8217;s &#8220;The Rape of Africa&#8221; by Elizabeth Grace Frank-Backman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elizabeth Grace Frank-Backman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 08:34:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>-- The photograph and title has NOTHING at all to do with the rape of women in Africa --

How true.  That was in fact my point.  A metaphor derives its power from taking the connotations of an object or event and applying them to a new circumstance.  Sadly, the painting has very little to do with rape at all, either in Africa or outside of Africa. 

What the painting does do is take social stereotypes of rape and then use them to make a rhetorical point.  I could argue against myself and say a social stereotype is as much a connotation associated with rape as the actual feelings and insights experienced by rape survivors.  I could even argue that stereotypes are by definition the more easily accessible set of connotations and so are a better set of associations for an artist to rely on.

But I&#039;m bothered by a question that I hope also bothers you.  Should art uncritically represent social stereotypes when they distort lived experience?  If people find black men scary, should artists use images of black men to connotate fear?  Is there really any message important enough for that kind of perpetuation of a stereotype? I surely hope not.  Why then is it OK to use social stereotypes of rape for rhetorical advantage?  An artist&#039;s job is to be creative finding fresh metaphors, not to reach for the most convenient one lying around.

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I actually do think rape is a good metaphor for Africa&#039;s ills, just not the way LaChappelle is using it.  The way he uses it, I think it actually hurts Africa.

The problem with portraying Africa as helpless and destroyed is that at most it inspires pity.  Pity does not usually lead to respect.

Secondly, LaChappelle&#039;s portrayal of rape as &quot;taking&quot; and rape victims as damaged and destroyed represents people&#039;s fears of what rape will do rather than what it actually does.   I have yet to see anyone empowered by representing fear as truth.

Rape victims and those who love them often fear that the rapist has caused permanent damage, but it isn&#039;t true.  When healing is farther along rape survivors often find that nothing essential was taken.  They are not damaged or broken or destroyed at all by the rape.

What rape survivors do find is that something has been given to them: a vision of a broken world they did not see before and never wanted to see.  There is sadness and sorrow with that, but not helplessness.  It more often than not leads people to think about how they can make a difference in private and sometimes public ways.   It is important to stress that real rape reveals the brokenness and damage in the world around the victim, NOT the victim.

If Africa really is helpless in the face of Western consumerism, then who is supposed to fix it,  knights in shining armor from the West?  I think not.  If Africa is not helpless, doesn&#039;t she deserve the respect due to someone who survives against all odds?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8211; The photograph and title has NOTHING at all to do with the rape of women in Africa &#8211;</p>
<p>How true.  That was in fact my point.  A metaphor derives its power from taking the connotations of an object or event and applying them to a new circumstance.  Sadly, the painting has very little to do with rape at all, either in Africa or outside of Africa. </p>
<p>What the painting does do is take social stereotypes of rape and then use them to make a rhetorical point.  I could argue against myself and say a social stereotype is as much a connotation associated with rape as the actual feelings and insights experienced by rape survivors.  I could even argue that stereotypes are by definition the more easily accessible set of connotations and so are a better set of associations for an artist to rely on.</p>
<p>But I&#8217;m bothered by a question that I hope also bothers you.  Should art uncritically represent social stereotypes when they distort lived experience?  If people find black men scary, should artists use images of black men to connotate fear?  Is there really any message important enough for that kind of perpetuation of a stereotype? I surely hope not.  Why then is it OK to use social stereotypes of rape for rhetorical advantage?  An artist&#8217;s job is to be creative finding fresh metaphors, not to reach for the most convenient one lying around.</p>
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<p>I actually do think rape is a good metaphor for Africa&#8217;s ills, just not the way LaChappelle is using it.  The way he uses it, I think it actually hurts Africa.</p>
<p>The problem with portraying Africa as helpless and destroyed is that at most it inspires pity.  Pity does not usually lead to respect.</p>
<p>Secondly, LaChappelle&#8217;s portrayal of rape as &#8220;taking&#8221; and rape victims as damaged and destroyed represents people&#8217;s fears of what rape will do rather than what it actually does.   I have yet to see anyone empowered by representing fear as truth.</p>
<p>Rape victims and those who love them often fear that the rapist has caused permanent damage, but it isn&#8217;t true.  When healing is farther along rape survivors often find that nothing essential was taken.  They are not damaged or broken or destroyed at all by the rape.</p>
<p>What rape survivors do find is that something has been given to them: a vision of a broken world they did not see before and never wanted to see.  There is sadness and sorrow with that, but not helplessness.  It more often than not leads people to think about how they can make a difference in private and sometimes public ways.   It is important to stress that real rape reveals the brokenness and damage in the world around the victim, NOT the victim.</p>
<p>If Africa really is helpless in the face of Western consumerism, then who is supposed to fix it,  knights in shining armor from the West?  I think not.  If Africa is not helpless, doesn&#8217;t she deserve the respect due to someone who survives against all odds?</p>
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		<title>Comment on David LaChappelle&#8217;s &#8220;The Rape of Africa&#8221; by J.M.</title>
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		<dc:creator>J.M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 23:45:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is the most ridiculous critique I&#039;ve ever read! The photograph and title has NOTHING at all to do with the rape of women in Africa but rather the RAPE OF AFRICA - The taking of culture, african women&#039;s beauty, resources, etc. This has to do with the continent itself and how consumerism is effecting/destroying it. I really like the mural at MOCCA and find that if he was to have used one of the ladies you listed above it would defeat the purpose. Naomi Campbell is a very high-profile supermodel and represents the western taking of African beauty. Before making a critique at least read the title.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the most ridiculous critique I&#8217;ve ever read! The photograph and title has NOTHING at all to do with the rape of women in Africa but rather the RAPE OF AFRICA &#8211; The taking of culture, african women&#8217;s beauty, resources, etc. This has to do with the continent itself and how consumerism is effecting/destroying it. I really like the mural at MOCCA and find that if he was to have used one of the ladies you listed above it would defeat the purpose. Naomi Campbell is a very high-profile supermodel and represents the western taking of African beauty. Before making a critique at least read the title.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Sacred Humanity and Responsibility by Louise Brookes</title>
		<link>http://ifshecryout.com/sacred-humanity-and-responsibility/comment-page-1/#comment-415</link>
		<dc:creator>Louise Brookes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 17:16:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, I really appreciate this post. It made me think once again about how perhaps suffering has an invisible meaning we aren&#039;t privileged to be aware of Where you said &#039;No experience in life taught me about the sacredness of life like rape did. No book or tradition either&#039;. It strikes me that sometimes it is the life experiences themselves that are the greatest teachers and that this is why they happen. I ask myself was I insufficiently compassionate before my traumatic experiences? Was there something I did not understand? Was I ignorant or not empathic in certain areas? And the answer to all those questions is &#039;Yes&#039;. I am now more connected to my feelings and therefore my truth and am able to have more loving care for myself and therefore others. I can feel that I see deeper and act more congruently - perhaps harmoniously. Does that mean that the infliction of suffering is a necessary tool for the opening of our hearts - no, I don&#039;t think it is necessary or the only way but part of me feels that our experiences are not so random as they appear and that the lessons we draw from them reflect the kind of people we are. That you have this awareness of long term generational trauma that passes on means you also have the capacity to change it. I wonder sometimes if our loudest prayers for progress are heard and answered and given to us but sometimes it takes an awful lot of change in us to receive those answers?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, I really appreciate this post. It made me think once again about how perhaps suffering has an invisible meaning we aren&#8217;t privileged to be aware of Where you said &#8216;No experience in life taught me about the sacredness of life like rape did. No book or tradition either&#8217;. It strikes me that sometimes it is the life experiences themselves that are the greatest teachers and that this is why they happen. I ask myself was I insufficiently compassionate before my traumatic experiences? Was there something I did not understand? Was I ignorant or not empathic in certain areas? And the answer to all those questions is &#8216;Yes&#8217;. I am now more connected to my feelings and therefore my truth and am able to have more loving care for myself and therefore others. I can feel that I see deeper and act more congruently &#8211; perhaps harmoniously. Does that mean that the infliction of suffering is a necessary tool for the opening of our hearts &#8211; no, I don&#8217;t think it is necessary or the only way but part of me feels that our experiences are not so random as they appear and that the lessons we draw from them reflect the kind of people we are. That you have this awareness of long term generational trauma that passes on means you also have the capacity to change it. I wonder sometimes if our loudest prayers for progress are heard and answered and given to us but sometimes it takes an awful lot of change in us to receive those answers?</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Boys of Buchenwald and the Cycle of Violence by Babette harrison White</title>
		<link>http://ifshecryout.com/the-boys-of-buchenwal-and-the-cycle-of-violence/comment-page-1/#comment-413</link>
		<dc:creator>Babette harrison White</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 12:47:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wonderful article. So needed to be written and read...Many broken boys and mending men need to know they are not alone.,,.

Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wonderful article. So needed to be written and read&#8230;Many broken boys and mending men need to know they are not alone.,,.</p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Six million one by one by marit</title>
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		<dc:creator>marit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jun 2010 17:02:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this is so powerful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this is so powerful.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Survivor News on the Web (May 12-18, 2010) by JBR</title>
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		<dc:creator>JBR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 May 2010 10:17:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the links and info.  Blessings.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the links and info.  Blessings.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Survivor News on the Web (May 12-18, 2010) by Erin Merryn</title>
		<link>http://ifshecryout.com/survivor-news-on-the-web-may-12-18-2010/comment-page-1/#comment-296</link>
		<dc:creator>Erin Merryn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 May 2010 21:07:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have to say you have a beautiful website with great information. You must put a lot of time and effort into it, but it will help many!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to say you have a beautiful website with great information. You must put a lot of time and effort into it, but it will help many!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Axe the Rape-aXe by Love Bites: Clarisse Thorn &#124; Time Out Chicago &#187; &#187; Depressing first: Sharp vagina to deter rapists in South Africa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Love Bites: Clarisse Thorn &#124; Time Out Chicago &#187; &#187; Depressing first: Sharp vagina to deter rapists in South Africa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2010 17:55:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] fact, the device debuted five years ago, but it&#8217;s gaining media attention again because its inventor is now calling for 30,000 free Rape-aXes to be handed out before the World Cup [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] fact, the device debuted five years ago, but it&#8217;s gaining media attention again because its inventor is now calling for 30,000 free Rape-aXes to be handed out before the World Cup [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Survivor News on the Web (May 5-May 11, 2010) by JBR</title>
		<link>http://ifshecryout.com/survivor-news-on-the-web-may-5-may-11-2010/comment-page-1/#comment-191</link>
		<dc:creator>JBR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 May 2010 11:40:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the updates on these.  Blessings.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the updates on these.  Blessings.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Survivor News on the Web (May 5-May 11, 2010) by Carla Dippel</title>
		<link>http://ifshecryout.com/survivor-news-on-the-web-may-5-may-11-2010/comment-page-1/#comment-185</link>
		<dc:creator>Carla Dippel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 May 2010 03:24:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for sharing my post here~ I am moved and honored! I love the theme of your site, &quot;voicing the wisdom of survivors&quot;. It is amazing how we can inspire each other in sharing our truth, even if our stories differ in the details. I hope all who visit here will find new measures of hope. ~Carla</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for sharing my post here~ I am moved and honored! I love the theme of your site, &#8220;voicing the wisdom of survivors&#8221;. It is amazing how we can inspire each other in sharing our truth, even if our stories differ in the details. I hope all who visit here will find new measures of hope. ~Carla</p>
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